Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Im looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?

travelocity.com has a low fare alert that you can sign up for, and it emails you when the fare between your selected cities goes up or down.





I prefer Yahoo Travel which has an RSS feed that displays the lowest fare available every time I log into my home page of my.yahoo.com.Im looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?
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Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?

I would like to become a teacher! My question is: is it hard to obtain your bachelor's degree in education? I am going to take my entrance tests for college soon then I will know where to start. I was just wanting some advice, experiences you have had as a teacher and what the career field is like? I would greatly appreciate it.


Thanks and god bless!Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?
The difficulty factor in getting an education degree shouldn't scare you. It's challenging, but it's not rocket science.





As for what it is like to be a teacher, there seem to be as many answers as there are teachers. It can be one of the most rewarding careers imaginable and one of the most frustrating. Talk to some of your own teachers or former teachers that you particularly respect and get their feelings about this and advice.





My final bit of advice is to either choose a school that gets you in the classroom early as an intern or volunteer aide. If your chosen school does not do this, find somewhere to volunteer on your own time and find out how the classroom feels to you in a non-student role. I've seen friends go through 3 1/2 years of an education major and then hit reality in their student teaching experience and decide that teaching is not for them. Better to find out (either way) early in the going. It will either motivate you to do well because you know you love it or let you make a change before you get too far down the road.





Good luck!Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?
Depending on where and what you want to teach, you don't have to get a BA in education. I have a degree in psychology, and I teach social studies, history, and government. I know others who have random Bachelors degrees and still get away with teaching. You must have a license though, so as long as you have the qualification, you can teach. Its hard work, but easy enough.

Your problem & advice given to you about drug addiction?

hey. i need to ask you about the problems you encounter about drug addiction... and the advices people/friends gave you.





** sort of like those problem/advice page on the magazines..





thank you.Your problem %26amp; advice given to you about drug addiction?
Well, I have to say peoples advice never held any sway to get me to quit using drugs and alcohol. I totally wanted their advice when things went bad for me but never took it (I think I just liked the attention), I always thought I was smarter than them. When I was up and having a good time I resented their advice and wanted them to leave me alone.





Understand this coming from me, a drug addict who knows - addicts are manipulators, they are selfish, spineless, romantic, narcissistic liars who love people but not near as much as they love feeling good. We come in all shapes and sizes with all sorts of different addictions. We quit when we get good and ready and only when we can face the truth and begin to tell the truth, no matter what. No person ever told me that, I had to find it out on my own.





Advice: ';fake it til you make it'; (just plain stupid and vague), ';prayer and God can take away your cravings and heal you'; (partially true but not like magic, it's a trial), ';Keep coming to AA/NA'; meetings (makes your addiction the center focus of your life), ';talk to someone'; (I never listen), ';Get married to someone who will keep you straight'; (you'll make them miserable).





Addiction is a mindset not at all easily overcome, I'm still trying to beat it everyday. Even though I have not used illegal drugs in 20 years and stopped drinking many years ago I have had trouble with any prescription I ever took that altered my normal state, even over the counter stuff. I am still married after 20 years but my personality causes much emotional pain to those I love. I am working on it.





Hope that answers your question. Advice is good - just not real effective.

What advice do you have for a rather spoiled young lady as she enters a new phase of her life?

I am 16 and my daddy, against my will, is sending me to a boarding school that he hopes will ';adjust my attitude';. For instance, they have uniforms, ROTC and no boys!.





I will even be having a roommate. I have never even shared a room before except with my older sister when I was really little. How can a rather spoiled young lady, such as myself, acclimate to having a roommate? suppose she is not spoiled? suppose she is a thug? suppose she is a junkie? suppose she is a lesbian? How do come up with rules and stuff if we disagree about something? with my older brother and older sister I just cry and SCREAM to get my way (well some of the time), but these will be total strangers.





Thank you and good day,What advice do you have for a rather spoiled young lady as she enters a new phase of her life?
Ok, Lori, here's my advice from what I know about dorms:





~Bring stuff like a folding hamper and transportable shower caddy. That way, you can hide your stuff and store it in compact spaces.


~Buy a small safe for really valuable stuf so your roomate can't get her paws near it.


~Don't be the boss. Set rules together. And don't claim all the biggest and best stuff. Split things equally (well, as equally as possible!)


~More than likely, your roommate will not be spoiled. So, you have to accept that. ';Lindsay, I am spoiled. I hope to make it so that my spoiledness doesn't interfere with you.'; And don't throw an extreme number of temper tantrums because you will get in trouble.


~If she is a thug, be careful. You need real proof. And if you find a lead, report it to your Headmaster or person in charge of that. But do it ANONYMOUSLY! Trust me, you can't identify yourself.


~If she is a junkie, you also have to report her, but try to get good evidence, like people frequenting your room with large amounts of cash and leaving with bags, her being half out of it whenever, and other obvious signs. You know what to do.


~Lesbian. Hmm. Tight one. I guess you just have to know for certain, and then explain in a polite way. ';Lindsay, I understand that we have different sexual orientations. But let's not involve that in our friendship. You have yours and I have mine. So let's leave it at that. Ok?';


~Basically, just treat your roommate like you want her to treat you.





And most likely, honestly, you'll probably get some really nice girl who you'll get along with really well.





And sorry for naming her Lindsay, just making an example.





7 days. Aah! I've been counting down on my facebook the number of days (literally, my status is ';counting down to my trip (2 days) and till Lori leaves (7)';) and everyone wants to know who you are! I'm going to miss you, so we'll email and you'll give me your facebook name.





Good luck! I'm bringing my phone and computer with me, so I'll check for your question of the day every day!





Please do email.





In case this is it for us on here, goodbye Lori. Thank you and many good days.





Oh, and PS: I was reading the answers to Em's question about being bored. when I hit yours, I saw you say something about the girl who looked just like me, and how you thought it was me and all. So I started looking. That was FREAKY! She looked so much like me!! But we obviously have nothing in common because I'm not going to tell someone to do that.





Talk to you soon! Let me know if you need my email address again!





//\\//\\//\\//What advice do you have for a rather spoiled young lady as she enters a new phase of her life?
You will learn to deal with the real problems of life instead of having someone do it for you. I guarantee you that you will gain some self respect and even make some good friends. Quit worrying so much about your roommate, most people are pretty normal. Well, except for you.
Sometimes having a roommate can be a good thing. It teaches you how to interact and make friends. You can also learn some new tricks for getting your way with daddy. Sounds like the old tricks aren't working anymore. Good luck!
Lori, change and adaptation to those changes, is all part of growing up.Having a roommate is certainly going to be a challenge.Be prepared to share a space with a stranger who may or may not be of your liking.Be prepared to make compromises in order for this to work out.I'm sure there will be rules for students to follow while in residency.so some choices will be made for you.If you work at it, you may find your roommate will become a friend for life.Keep in mind it is the small things that irritate in a relationship (whether it is friends, acquaintances or couples).Keep bathroom spaces clean, do not use someone else's property without permission and don't play your country music too loud when your roommate is studying. (just kidding about the country musicLori I don't know what music you like.It basically comes down to respecting your roommates space and property and being willing to compromise.As for rules that will all get sorted out when you meet your roommate.Some things you will learn through trial and error.PLEASE try not let the visual of your roommate destroy a potential friendship before you even say hello.Lori , you've got a slight case of the jitters but I think you will be fine.It is just facing the unknown.You have nothing to fear but fear itself.Take care.
It looks like you've got some changes coming your way . I doubt that it will be as bad as you have visualized in your mind, and hopefully you will take the opportunity to learn that every person no matter what their age , needs to learn to get along with people and no body no matter who they are is any better then the next person. At your age I suspect that you won't be there to long. So, put on your lady manners and try to look at all the other girls , in the same boat as you are, as potential friends. Good luck!
Time to grow up and get unspoiled :)





You won't know what the roommate will be like until you get there. Best to make friends or live in hell for a long time if you don't.
You better get unspoiled in a hurry. You family might give you your way to shut you up but stranges don't have to.
It will be good for you to learn a new experience. Your father is taking a great step to prepare you with a great education that many of us will never have. Try to open your mind more and think about taking your focus off someone besides yourself. The situation will only be as bad as you make it.
Think of life as one long learning experience. We're here to meet new people, find out about them, etcetera. Whatever happens, you'll learn from it, right?





Don't worry, you'll be fine and we'll always be here for you.
Time to come to terms with reality...and if you want to be spoiled, you work for everything you have. You must need something else readjusted because having a rotten attitude can be fixed by working, taking away your freedoms, and your parents just giving you the cold shoulder. Boarding school doesn't always help, an individual can come out ten times worse.





...Erm? If you ever want to go away to college, you should get used to the idea of a roommate. Never know, could be the best years of your life.
lol tell the person in chagre that u have a very bad disease and connnot sleep wit anyone unless they want the whole skool to be closed down...
Well for starters get over yourself and stop being a self acclaimed spoiled brat - it's not cute. In the real world crying and screaming will most likely get you nowhere so just try being reasonable with this new roommate. Don't go into it thinking things will be a disaster - she may surprise you and become a great friend, or someone you can learn from - even if she is different. Be open. If you want to set some initial ground rules, talk to her when you move in together about the basics, but don't get all bossy-pants on her, it'll be her room too. Just try to enjoy the experience for what it is. Good luck.
just grow up because most people dont like people who are spoiled and your not at home any more you might say something that would fly at home but might get you punched in the face now so I would say dont worry about other people just mind your own business and adjust to your enviorment respect people the way you want to be respected unless your the fighting type and dont mind getting down
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  • Me and my partner are looking to buy our first house together..what is the best advice you can give us?

    We live in the north west of england and we are looking for a house..where can we get a good mortgage and what advice can you give us? Thanks :)Me and my partner are looking to buy our first house together..what is the best advice you can give us?
    1) get a mortgage in priciple before you go looking - this may help you avoid gazumping.


    2) don't rely on the survey the bank has done - do the cheap one for the bank and a full one independently.


    3) make sure you can afford the mortgage, and have the necessary deposit.


    4) when you put an offer in, offer less than the asking price and if this is accepted place a £50.00 deposit on acceptance and get the vendor to remove the property from the market.


    5) ask your estate agent to recommend a solicitor and if you are not using one ring round to find out if they do special deals for house purchases. Once you have chosen one get the forms completed as quickly as possible so that you can move quicker.


    6) If any problems that are fixable come up in the survey try to negotiate the price down or if the vendor won't budge get them to get the work done and for a guarantee to be given.


    7)take out insurance on the property from the day the contracts are signed - and if possible take out mortgage repayment insurance and income replacement plans on one salary.


    8) check your local papers - if a house has been on the market for awhile you may get it cheaper - we did this and knocked 14K off the asking price as they were soooooo desperate to sell.


    9) Lie to the estate agents about how much you want to spend - I can guarantee that if you say £150K they will send you out to look at houses in areas you haven't specified and over your budget upto 175K probably......


    10) negotiate estate agents fees if you pay them and contract length - we got ours reduced to 1% from 1.5% and from 12 weeks to 6.





    One final thing - look at all types of home even if you hadn't considered it before and don't turn down viewings the estate agent may get stropy and stop sending you the best places that come up.Me and my partner are looking to buy our first house together..what is the best advice you can give us?
    don't loose your job.for if you do,there's no mercy these days,you'll be thrown out in no time at all.
    i think the best advise for you would be to look on the market dont go and jump right into it as you can make a mistake realy bad and very easy so vuiw alot off places and make sure that you and your partner want it when you find the right house you will no when you walk in but the first one will feel like that to hope that it helps
    -If you can hang on a bit do so. Being a first time buyer you


    will have the whip hand soon.


    -The credit crunch means the housing market is seizing up.


    -There are going to be house price reductions and a lot of


    repossessions as mortgage renewal rates jump alarmingly.


    -Mortgages will be more expensive and higher deposits


    needed. Check with various building societies what they


    would typically lend you so you know your price limit AND DON'T EXCEED IT!


    -So keep saving, the bigger the deposit the better your


    chance of getting a better deal. Can the bank of ';MUM %26amp;


    DAD'; help at all?


    -Don't be scared of putting in a low offer, some people will


    be desperate. If not accepted there will be plenty more


    soon!


    -Remember the running costs are now high, Energy, Council


    tax etc. have all jumped alarmingly, and will only increase in


    future. Check out before jumping in on an offer!


    -DO YOUR HOMEWORK and take off the rose tinted


    glasses, you are going to be hard up whatever!


    -Pay off any debts you already have, don't ignore them. Card


    debts for example (typically 15%) are exorbitant, it is better


    to use savings to get rid of them and pay them off rather than


    earn 5% (taxable) in the bank.
    if you have a house youre about to sell, wait later. selling is a horrible time. the stock market is down. I dont know about buying.
    well according to the every thing said in the press the thing is to wait, because of this credit crunch, have at least 10% deposit for your mortgage.
    Put down a 25% downpayment.


    Try to put extra money towards your mortgage every year, and try in increase your payments whenever possible.
    A few things, as your not married I suggest that you carefully look at what you want to happen if one of you dies, sorry if thats a bit morbid, but if you were to die





    With joint ownership the other would inherit





    With shared it would go to next of kin or whoever they willed it to.








    Finance





    It is essential to work out what you can afford, set yourself a budget and stick to it. With a huge range of mortgages, competition between lenders and low interest rates, many borrowers find themselves being offered vast sums of money. However, interest rates can rise and, as they do, so will your monthly repayments. You could lose your home if you fail to keep up with your mortgage repayments, so make sure they are affordable. As a rule, mortgage repayments should not exceed a third of your net monthly income.





    It is best to have a mortgage arranged as soon as possible, so that you are in a stronger position when you find the property you wish to buy. Mortgage lenders can give offers 'in principle' - a tentative agreement to lend you a certain amount of money. This amount should of course match your budget.








    Property search





    Think about what sort of property would best suit your needs. Eliminating unsuitable properties at this stage will save you a lot of time and effort. It is helpful to distinguish between what you need and what you want, and be prepared to compromise over location and local amenities.





    Majority of people looking to buy a house purchase their property through an estate agent. Register with agents in the area in which you are looking, and tell them exactly what you are looking for. Be keen, contactable and ready to view properties immediately as properties can be sold in under a week. Be aware that estate agents are paid by, and act in the interest of, the vendor.





    You can search houses for sale and flats for sale on our database, and find out local information including schools, council tax, transport, crime rate, house prices and leisure facilities.





    Viewing





    Viewing a property is a crucial stage of buying a house. More often than not you will be able to tell within minutes of walking into a house whether you could live there. However, don't dismiss properties simply based on how they look or are decorated.





    Be objective. It is important to see a property at least twice, preferably with a friend. Visit at different times of the day and week to build a picture of the neighbourhood. If you still like it, make an offer.





    Making an offer





    Obviously you don't want to pay more than you have to for a property but equally you don't want to insult the owners, or risk losing it, with a low offer. If things are selling fast and you feel the house is realistically priced. However, if the house has been on the market some time you could try offering a less.





    If your first offer isn't accepted and you are prepared to go higher, do try again. There is likely to be a period of negotiation before a price is agreed. Once your offer is accepted, ensure that you get it confirmed in writing by the estate agent, or vendor, if it is a private sale.





    Nothing is legally binding at this point - your offer is subject to contract and a survey. Either you or the seller can pull out of the sale right up until the point when contracts are exchanged.





    Next steps





    The faster you can complete on the sale, the less chance there is of being gazumped (where another buyer outbids you). You need to:


    o Inform your mortgage lender that you have found the house to buy. They will need to arrange a valuation as soon as possible


    o Instruct your solicitor or conveyancer. Provide them with the address of the house you wish to buy, details of the vendor's solicitor and the details of your mortgage lender


    o Choose and commission a survey


    o Ask the agent to change the For Sale sign to Sold





    Surveys


    Prices vary substantially, starting at £100 and rising up to £1,000, depending on the property type and which survey you select. Always use a surveyor registered by the Royal Institution of Chartered Surveyors (RICS).





    Legal advice %26amp; conveyancing





    Conveyancing is the legal term for the process by which property ownership is transferred. Property conveyance will be done by a solicitor or a licensed conveyancer (you can do it yourself, athough you have to be organised).





    Finding a conveyancer





    When appointing a solicitor or conveyancer it is generally best to be guided by a personal recommendation. Failing this, contact the Law Society, The National Solicitors' Network or the Council of Licensed Conveyancers to find registered members.





    Your solicitor or conveyancer is there to protect you from any legal obstacle that may prevent you from taking full, free ownership of the house that you are buying.





    Exchange of contracts





    Your solicitor/conveyancer must receive your finalised mortgage offer and a draft contract from the seller's solicitor before he can proceed. Once both parties are happy with the contract, identical copies are signed. The copy signed by you will be sent to the vendor's solicitor with your deposit. Your solicitor will then receive the vendor's contract. The exchange of contracts has now occurred and the sale is legally binding.





    Make sure you are happy with the contract. Read the fixtures and fittings list carefully so you know what's staying and what's going - that way you'll avoid any nasty surprises on moving-in day.





    Completion





    The date of completion is agreed at the exchange stage. It can be the same day or months later. On completion, the balance of the purchase price is paid to the vendor and the deeds of the house are handed to your solicitor who passes them to your mortgage lender as security for the loan. You are now the legal owner of the property





    Make a will and take out insurance for building (mortgage comapny will insist this is in place at exchane of contracts.





    Get contents insurance if you can afford it and life insurance for both of you if you are going to go into this as joint ownership.
    All depends on your credit rating (even one missed payment on a credit card can have such an adverse effect these days that a lot of the best mortgage deals will be closed to you). As has been mentioned, you'll need at least a 10% deposit.

    Need advice asap so please could you help?

    I went for a job interview last week and when i went they said i should apply for the position higher so i said that i would love to and that they were going to close the date for applicants early this week. The problem i have i have been offered another job but i really want the other job but they have not let me know either way. Should i ring them up and ask if they have made a decesion either way and explain i have why i want to know or do i wait to hear from them? is it rude to ring them up and ask?Need advice asap so please could you help?
    If I were you, i'd definitly give them a call!





    I'd start off the conversation as follows, %26amp; have chosed 2 scenarios on the bottom as an end:::





    ';Hello this is so n so, and the reason for my call is to follow up with you regarding the interview we had last week and to inquire if you had made your decision yet.... If she hasn't decided yet.... I would make a point to say.... ';Alright, again I just wanted to follow up, and remind you once again that I'm extremely interested in this position.





    At this point you'll need an ending... I gave you 2 scenarios, as follows::::





    Scenario 1:





    ';I do want to let you know that due to the economy I have applied to other companies as well, but I want to make it very clear that this is my first choice. When you do make your final decision, could you please give me a call either way, I'd really appreciate it....(at this point he/she should say, we will be making our decision by ex. friday) ok then, it was a pleasure speaking with you, have a nice day.





    OR





    Scenario 2:





    ';I want to let you know that working for this company is my first very choice, %26amp; I think I would be a great asset to your company %26amp; i'd ask that when you do make your final decision, if you'd please inform me either way, I'd really appreciate it....(at this point he/she should say, we will be making our decision by ex. friday) ok ';so n so'; it was a pleasure speaking with you, %26amp; have a nice day.';





    If I were you, I'd go w/ # 2, as they might think you're not that interested.... Hope this helps = )Need advice asap so please could you help?
    not sure why you are in the 'trying to conceive' section but hey-ho :-)





    I would ring them up and just ask them straight. It may even help to say that you have been offered another job.


    If you explain that you don't want to accept the other job if there's a chance they are going to hire you for this position then it will show just how much you really want to work for them. It will also show that you are in demand and they will have to be quick because you are about to be snapped up.





    I am job hunting as well so I wish you the best of luck.x
    It was recommended in an article on yahoo yesterday that you wait a week before calling to inquire about a position you have interviewed for. But each place and employer have individual feelings on calling to check so its a do at your own risk type of thing. They usually don't leave people in the lurch once they have made up their minds and you should know soon after they decide.
    not necessarily as it makes you look eager which gives you a better chance, but you could always apply for the new one and turn down the other.

    What advice would you give to someone who has won a lot of money?

    spend wisely and turn your phone off!!


    a person near me once won about 2.5 mil after taxes..and about 2 years later filed for bankruptcy.. tWhat advice would you give to someone who has won a lot of money?
    * Keep the ticket safe - Roger Sockman(Florida Lottery spokesman) says people do funny things with their tickets, such as keeping it in a baggie in the freezer, in a sock under the mattress or most practical of all, in a safe deposit box.





    * Think about current job - A winning ticket is a grand thing, but it doesn't really count until you've got the cash. It'd be best take some time off, without explaining why, if possible. They're going to be very busy becoming a millionaire and they'd probably want to quit. Sockman says most winners do, even though at their original interview about a quarter claim they'll keep working. He explains, ';They can't imagine how much money they've won. It's a life-changing event.';





    * Find people they can can trust - The most important financial decision to make initially is who's going to be accountant, financial adviser and lawyer.Referral is the best way and if none of your friends or family can recommend a particular professional, it would be good to go to a major accounting firm, a major brokerage and a large law firm.Ask what they'll do for you.





    * Arrange for a special account at the bank - You can't just deposit millions into your plain old checking account. And they don't really give you a paper check with a lot of zeroes. They give you the money by a wire transfer to your pre-arranged special account, says Sockman.





    *Last bit of advice -Yep,they should definitely change their phone number because now that they're richer than their wildest dreams, everyone's going to want to reach out and touch them, and that will be a nightmare. So get a new unlisted telephone number ;)What advice would you give to someone who has won a lot of money?
    Quit while you're ahead. The odds always favor the house in the long run. You can win gambles in the short run, but in the long run, the house ALWAYS wins.
    Buy a Vineyard in California or a Ranch in Texas. Don't put it in a Bank or invest yet, wait until after the deppression.
    change your phone number and talk to a financial adviser.
    Put it away for school or buy a house just dont spend it all in one place
    ....Give me some?

    Is ';When you're in a hole, stop digging'; good advice?

    if so, where were you when you started?Is ';When you're in a hole, stop digging'; good advice?
    very good advice i was still on top when i started and finished lolIs ';When you're in a hole, stop digging'; good advice?
    yes its good advice but I just can't help doing it because there's no other way out.
    Honey,when I'm in a hole,I don't wanna stop digging!.I was in some chicks bedroom,and I scored a 'hole in one'!.
    I dig deeper whilist in holes
    if it's not right then let it go.
    You never know, you might strike oil, a vein of gold or some lost treasure. Life's a gamble you could lose all day, but one jackpot could make up for it all. So never dig so deep you can't climb out. ~~Peace~~
    when in a hole the last thing I think about is digging!!!!


    xx

    Men, who do you turn to when you're seeking advice?

    and you KNOW that it would expose the core of your being, and your fragile ego, so asking a significant other is out of the question.


    And unlike our significant others, we don't have anything called a 'best female friend'.Men, who do you turn to when you're seeking advice?
    I'm very fortunate in that I have a son who is almost 40, and very mature. I talk to him, and trust him with my deepest, darkest thoughts. He listens, and even though I'm his Dad, he looks at me as a man first, then his Daddy. He gives me good, honest advice.Men, who do you turn to when you're seeking advice?
    The men turn to me! I'm am all ears. Well my husbands friends do. They say I'm funny, honest, and like one of the guys. I'll be your best female friend.
    Luckily for me I have two very wise sisters. They will always lend an ear and give advice. Try family, maybe an aunt or uncle, just make sure it's someone you trust.
    Yahoo answers
    my Magic 8 ball
    Yahoo Answers... What's on your mind?

    If you were President, who would you rely on for advice?

    Barry's typically white grandmother?





    or





    General David Petraeus?If you were President, who would you rely on for advice?
    GODIf you were President, who would you rely on for advice?
    A great wise man was once asked, who was greater, Alexander the great, Genghis Khan or Attila the Hunt. He inclined his head for a second and answered, Issac Newton. Because great are those who address our intellect, not those who use force to achieve their goals.





    A president uses the military men to carry tasks that are decided upon by strategic minds.
    Political/governmental advice: My cabinet


    Personal advice: My friends %26amp; family





    That being said, I'm sure Sen. Obama's grandmother,or as you irreverently call her ';a typically white grandmother';, is a lovely person with a wealth of knowledge.
    I would rely on someone of the opposite party.





    Like Lincoln did.








    He said surrounding yourself with people who disagree with you, helps you to fix flaws in your ideas before they are implemented.
    Well, since obama is going to be president, he will surely get enough experience for me to rely on him for advice.
    Neither. I would look for truly the best and the brightest. I would seek out alternative points of view. I would consider them as long as they were supported by the facts.
    The most intelligent , honest , knowledgeably , hard working and patriot people in the USA .
    The Oracle at Delphi
    paris hilton.
    neither
    If I were president, the world will come to an end.





    neither
    Karl Rove


    John Bolton
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    http://www.english-at-home.com/Please can you advice me any site or page where i can pick up knovlage of english?
    google.comPlease can you advice me any site or page where i can pick up knovlage of english?
    Honestly, try Sesame Street http://www.sesamestreet.org/home. It's for children, but it is helpful with learning English as a second language. Also try www.learn-english-online.com.





    Good luck!

    For people above age 50 - If you could give 1 advice/tip to a younger person, what would it be?

    Serious answers ONLY pleaseFor people above age 50 - If you could give 1 advice/tip to a younger person, what would it be?
    don't vote for nixonFor people above age 50 - If you could give 1 advice/tip to a younger person, what would it be?
    I am not 50, I am 15, but I would say 'Do not feel like you have to do everything all at once, enjoy life as you go, do not give into peer pressure and society's distorted values.'
    Use your best judgment. meaning use your brain to make good choices. seek out someone much older when you need more information.
    guys are going to disappear in the future no need for a boyfriend

    What is one advice that someone gave you and at first,?

    you thought that it is not useful at all but after that you just realised that it was really helpful?!What is one advice that someone gave you and at first,?
    ';When someone keeps texting you mean and harrassing comments, just don't respond. No response will hurt the person more than any words you will type.';





    At first I didn't believe the person, but today I realised that this really works. It annoys the harrassing person more if you just ignore them. =)What is one advice that someone gave you and at first,?
    stay away from her, lol
    When I was a teen I was always told to never take anything for granted. Simple things, like hearing and vision, life itself. Then when I was 25, I got really sick and almost died. I lost most of my hearing, and had to learn to walk again. I never thought something like that would happen to me, but it did.
    Go see the realtors if you want more loans! .... Yeah the realtors aren't selling SH** so that was a waist of time!
    look both ways before you cross a street
    I don't know but there were lots of times like that.
    you can't expect others to help you, you have to help yourself.
    To quit trying to find love and wait for it to find you. Didn't realize they were right until I tried it.
    ';When on the ladder of success, don't let boys look up your dress!';
    Dont ever smoke


    Education is important


    Stop and smell the flowers,once in a while


    A bargain is not a bargain unless you need it


    Love thy neighbour


    Treat people as you would like to be treated


    Never forget your manners


    Respect your elders


    Dont bite the hand that feeds you


    :) x
    Dont say ';I love you'; if you dont mean it.
    never tell your brother you took his football unless you have cooked him brownies.
    always go with my gut its never wrong
    That I was too young to date, sorry roxanne if you're reading this!
    drinking 24 cans of coke a day will rot your teeth.................they were sooooooooo right :0(
    ';What you see depends mainly on what you look for.';

    Whats the best advice anyone's ever given you?

    Actually the best advice I ever heard was in American History X, the part when the principal asked Ed Nortons character





    ';Just ask yourself this, is there anything you've done at this point that's made your life better?';Whats the best advice anyone's ever given you?
    ';You can only truly love and trust when you no longer have the need for it.';Whats the best advice anyone's ever given you?
    Probably the saying


    ';What would you do if you knew you would not fail';


    Or, someone told me that no matter what, as long as I do what I've always done I'll get where I want to be.
    Be yourself and enjoy today, who knows if there is a tomorrow.

    Ok..i need advice from all dudes..What are the things that you love dat ur gurl does?

    details plz.


    what makes a gud gurlfriendOk..i need advice from all dudes..What are the things that you love dat ur gurl does?
    i love it when shes in the mood she nibbles on my ear... but i also love all the cute things she does like blows kisses to me or tells me she loves me or i especially love it when she can't sleep at night she calls me in the middle of the night jsut to talk or just to let me know she's thinking about me or just cute stuff like that :)Ok..i need advice from all dudes..What are the things that you love dat ur gurl does?
    there is this book called act like a lady think like a man by steve harvey. its really good. it tells you about the general things that real men look for in a woman and things that women should understand about men. you should read it. it will help a lot.
    Oral sex is almost universally popular with guys.


    good temperament and disposition is almost as important too though.
    Lol idk.... Cares about me more than any other girl would


    It would be nice if you would help me too


    =]


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
    she wakes me up with a bj and makes me food without me asking
    She sleeps....I like her a lot better when she is sleeping....btw, I'm married so that explains it.
    i like when my girl gives me teh buttsecks

    Can you sue someone on here for giving you wrong advice that was harmful to your health?

    Nope. Medical advice and suggestions given here are merely opinions. I try to give factual reply; properly documented and research as well as derived from my vast nursing experience. as well as my own personal experience. However, all information on the subject matter can be obtained by the askers themselves on their own volition and initiative. Some people should be truly grateful for this solicitated and valuable tidbits of info.Can you sue someone on here for giving you wrong advice that was harmful to your health?
    seriously, come on. none of the people answering questions on here have enough of your medical information to give you advice on any medical condition. these are all opinions and anything that you do tht could affect your health should always be consulted with by your doctor. why would you take a strangers advice about your health without asking a doctor? really how old are you? like 10??Can you sue someone on here for giving you wrong advice that was harmful to your health?
    my suggestion is that if you are willing to take joe schmoes advice on here vs. seeking proper medical attention then you get what you deserve... are any of these people dr's yeah sure maybe a few on here... but you cant believe every thing you read and hear... i can see getting some suggestions on the problem/illess you are having and going to a dr. with those... but if your too addicted to the computer to where you cant pull your *** from YA then you need a psychologist too... and no you can't sue someone on here for that... its ridiculous to even think that!
    No. If you could sue people for bad advise (that you didn't pay for) our legal system would be brought to its knees. By the way, advise is just that. It can be very wrong. Haven't you ever seen that commercial where the guy calls his brother and asks him what he should say to a girl he likes. His brother tells him what to say and says ';it works every time little bro'; The boy takes the advise and the girl throws food in his face.
    i wouldnt think so, thats why its called advice...you decided to take it and its not their fault
    Any information here is an opinion, for education and guidance. Even a doctor posting here cannot offer a diagnosis, treatment or cure for any condition. Anyone who is not a licensed medical professional cannot provide any form of diagnosis so suggestions are just an opinion and do not take the place of proper medical care.
    NO. It's always your responsibility to be knowledgeable about your own problems or condition.You take any ones ';advice'; with a grain of salt,never blindly ! Many of us are medical professionals,and will give sound,accurate advice,most of us do refer you to other websites or will disclose our sources of medical facts etc. Even if you went to a MD and gotten advice,how could you prove that you did EXACTLY what he said ? You can't. Sometimes people will take advice from someone who just agrees with the asker,or the one who has the easiest way out of your problem. That's never a good thing. Take care. SW RNP
    No, it's merely advice we offer, we cannot possibly make a diagnosis of your condition. You should always follow your doctor's instructions.
    Nope. Read the fine print. Yahoo has a nifty disclaimer that they cannot promise the accuracy of any answers and u are fully liable for them if u take them. This is a place for suggestion, venting, ideas--not a medical diagnosis. thats why u have to PAY for a PROFESSIONAL. We just offer help and ideas before u go t a doc.
    probably not cuz it is advice n u can choose to take it or not
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  • Does any one know a website that if you type a question about teens problems it will give you advice??

    yes





    www.advicenators.com





    thats the best site ever!!!


    just join it and you'll see...Does any one know a website that if you type a question about teens problems it will give you advice??
    yes. gurl.com BEST

    Last night I asked the question, ';Since i am new here what advice would you give me?

    Now i would like to see what answers i get from the morning peopleLast night I asked the question, ';Since i am new here what advice would you give me?
    Sense of humour needed at all times.


    Never take to Heart insults, or snide remarks.


    Try not to be misled by those that lead you into false friendship.


    Enjoy your time here.


    I Do!








    Welcome!Last night I asked the question, ';Since i am new here what advice would you give me?
    If you don't like humor (sometimes naughty humor) stay out of Polls and Surveys because we are crazy here.
    ask and you shall receive....but, beware. i may get you in trouble and not mean to. my violations tell that story.
    Take a light-hearted approach to your questions and answers. We are all just trying to have some fun here.
    I've never been called a morning person.
    No one can answer just one - beware of the Y/A time warp, keep your perverse humor handy and have fun.
    Block the idiots... don't report. Blocking is like wearing a condom.. you need protection!
    dont answer or ask anything seriously
    Don't take anything seriously and watch out for the kiddies. they're brutal.
    Watch out for trolls and reporters!
    Make sure you've got a good sense of humor =)
    Always listen to KIA, she's in charge.
    To have a good/warped sense of humor
    Enjoy the humor, don't report stupid stuff and if you think you might be pregnant, get an EPT. LOL!
    Don't show off too much skin in your avatar. No one likes that.
    Don't report Q and A's.





    Feed me sausage.
    jusk ask!

    Where on the net can you find the best free medical advice?

    Web MD is a great site. Easy to navigate and a lot of FREE information.Where on the net can you find the best free medical advice?
    Try WebmdWhere on the net can you find the best free medical advice?
    I like to use webmd.com, they have great information available to anyone.

    I want to buy cheap tennis shoes which company would you advice me?

    i want them under 1000Rs or 20$I want to buy cheap tennis shoes which company would you advice me?
    well, I would say to buy babolat, K-swiss ir adidas shoes. For you k-swiss, because they offer the cheapest tennis shoes out of those. However I don't think that there are any new tennis specialist shoes new for less than $20.00, let alone any new shoes. The cheapest shoes I know of are dunlop volleys, they cost $30 AUD. they could be used as tennis shoes.I want to buy cheap tennis shoes which company would you advice me?
    Addidas would probaly be the best they are around 50 $ but they last me about 2 months and I play tennis 3 hours every day.
    i would suggest LOTTO the shoes range from 750 to 1500.
    Wilson brand has some cheaply-priced tennis shoes.
    For that price, your best bet is to see if you can find something on ebay. As for brands, nike, adidas, diadora, and wilson all make good shoes for the sport.





    There are some good deals to be found at the following sites, but maybe not in the price range you are looking for.





    http://tenniswarehouse.com/





    http://holabirdsports.com/





    Good luck.

    If you could go back in time and visit yourself, what advice would you give?

    I would tell myself to remember that things in your life don't always turn out how you plan. That in a blink of an eye someones life could end and my parents could be apart. That anything is possible and even while hoping for the best to pre-pare for the worst. To remember that school is never as important as your family. That you dont need a guy to occupy your life to be independent and to be strong for those who need you. Never let a guy determine what you do, live your life for you and no one else please yourself and dont care what anyone else says or thinks. I would tell myself never to be afraid to take a chance because tomorrow is not guaranteed. To go outside and dance in the rain to not be afraid of living. To take a chance of love because its a huge risk trusting your heart with another but its well worth taking.If you could go back in time and visit yourself, what advice would you give?
    Don't marry your first wife, run away!!!!!!If you could go back in time and visit yourself, what advice would you give?
    I wouldn't tell myself a thing! Without the bad things that I have gone through I wouldn't be who I am or where I am today and my life is perfect just the way it is!
    Pick a college far away and experience that whole life....
    I'd go back to when I was four or five, and tell myself:





    ';What ever you do don't go into your moms bathroom and cute your hair to the shortest lengths becuase you will look like boy for the whole entire kindergarten year. Oh and don't cute your brothers hair either.';








    But if I couldn't do that I'd go to when I was in first grade and tell my self:





    ';Don't tell lies! You'll look back in the future and say what such a stupid thing that was and that's why you only have a few friends!';





    And I also hope that I'd listen.
    if you understand physics...





    I would tell myself....';DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT TOUCHING ME!';





    *(the same matter can NEVER occupy the same space at the same time)
    Had the butterfly, now leave the boy! Will save over 25 years of anger and misery.
    I would tell myself to continue my education. And persue my passions to their fullest.
    I would tell me to get over myself already.
    it would be: ';dont smoke that first cigarette';





    ';dont go to that party'; (there was 1 party where i didn't belong)





    ';straighten up your back. walk with confidence. respect yourself.';





    so many advices i want to tell myself
    Hey Third, always be a good boy and keep smiling. They will be good too and that smile is highly contagious!
    I would tell myself:





    Take the advice that people give you, and don't worry, because it will only make things worse. Believe what friends and family tell you, and don't think that you know better than them so often.





    And don't run around in the water--there are indeed leeches in there. :-)
    People that bully only do so because of their own insecurities .





    Be yourself .Nobody does it better.





    See yourself through God's eyes for He created you ,





    People who truly are your friend accept you just as you are and won't pressure you to do drug's or drink ,.
    Chill.


    Oh, and take that one job for a while, the thingie.
    Don't listen to the loons from the future
    don't buy those sandals that gave me callouses! pleeaassse!!
    keep doing what you're doing but with more confidence and certainty


    oh and don't screw up your finals!
    Think of the consequences.
    ';Don't get too cocky, you have to cover your tracks well when you're breaking the rules no matter how good you think you are.';
    Buy Microsoft stock.
    i agree with that person up there (I 鈾?serius black), that if i changed one little thing my whole life could change, and that i could have never really learned from my mistakes...





    but if i could change something, and it wouldn't have too much impact on who i am today...
    I would tell myself that its not always my fault the way I feel, but that I need to stick up for myself more often and not be afraid. Never change because someone tells you to. Its not right to do that. Always be yourself.
    I wouldn't. My whole life course would change. If I changed one little thing, my life right now could be totally different.





    And I wouldn't want to change any mistakes I made, I've learned from them all and are glad they happened. I want to independently gain advice, not have a future me advise me on anything.
    I think I might tell myself to leave work about 10 minutes earlier than I did last year on a night I got in a car accident.





    But the more I think about it, that accident did change my life. I got a new car, took a couple of much needed weeks off of work, and cut back my hours during recovery and physical therapy.





    So maybe, just maybe, I wouldn't tell myself anything.
    Buy lot's of Aol and Microsoft when it was pennies a share.
    be spontaneous
    If I focused on the areas I was good at for academic decathlon competition I could win prizes for them instead of trying to focus on everything. Anything else I don't think I would have listened to advice on.
    i wouldn't really tell myself anything because that would mean that i have regretted something and your not supposed to regret what you do





    going through life you are bound to make mistake and from those mistakes you learn





    of course there are thing we say oh i wish i didn't do that but if we dwell on those things it will just bring us down





    live life with no regrets!!!
    Think before you act!!!!!
    Listen when your parents tell you not to go on chatrooms.
    I would tell myself to stay the same fun mother and friend I was to start with! The only thing about me that is the same as before is I still listen to all the children about what ever their problem is and don't cut them down for what ever they do wrong. What I do different is I'm not always there and I'm not the same lets have fun, hang around, and what ever we want where ever we want kind of mother and friend.

    What is the best advice you can give to your friend who have a problem, but you do not know her problem?

    Let her know that you will always be there to talk to her about it, no matter the problem, and you will listen and not give any opinions unless she wants you to. Tell her that you care very much for her and that you don't want her to feel as if she cannot trust you with her problem, because she can.





    But make sure that you don't pry, if she seems like she does not want to talk, then she is probably not ready yet. Let her come to you, just make sure that you are as open as possible and she knows you are there for her whenever she feels ready.





    Also, dont assume she has a certain problem, unless she is showing major signs of that particular problem. She may be having problems with family, friends, self-esteem, self-discovery... it could be anything, but let her tell you herself.





    BUT- if she seems to be showing signs or doing things that could be dangerous to her health, or you think that she is possibly depressed or thinking of suicide, it is very important that you tell an adult. Such as your parents (if they know her parents,) the guidance counsellor, a teacher, her parents, etc.





    Anyway, just hang around with her and do things to cheer her up, too. Take her to a movie or invite her to a sleep-over, talk about anything other than her 'problem' unless she brings it up. If you have fun with her, she will appreciate that you help her get her mind off of her worries.What is the best advice you can give to your friend who have a problem, but you do not know her problem?
    Tell her that it's okay if she doesn't want to talk now, but let her know that you'll be there for her, and that she can always come talk to you. Make her feel like she'll be safe coming to you. Then if she finally tells you what's wrong, hopefully you'll be able to help her with whatever's going on. Good luck.
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  • What is the best advice you've ever gotten?

    How did this help you life and how have you used it.


    just trying to get different perspectives for my sociology class.


    thanks!What is the best advice you've ever gotten?
    The best advice I have ever gotten was actually on a poster in school. It read '; 90% of what a person worries about does not even happen';. This helped me not to worry so much.What is the best advice you've ever gotten?
    When I decided to start dating again after recovering from the grief of my husband's death, I tried checking out some internet dating sites, but was having NO luck..





    I had given my daughter a set of fancy tarot cards she wanted for her birthday, and she offered to do me a reading. She said there WAS a strong potential for another love interest in my life, but I would have to change some attitudes and overcome some prejudices before it could happen.


    I thought about it for a while, and eventually forgot it completely. Then, THREE YEARS LATER, I met a guy on a website that seemed really nice, but he was uneducated and almost illiterate.


    My daugher said that I should look past his lack of formal education, take him more seriously and give it a chance because she thought he was the guy she had forseen in the tarot reading three years before.





    So I took her advice. I travelled 200 miles to meet him in person and spend a week with him. I have NEVER been gladder of ANYTHING in my life! He turned out to be the most remarkable person I have ever met!


    We have been living together for almost 4 years, now, and would be married if it weren't for insurance and economic problems that would make our marriage impractical. We are totally in love and we both know we are a permanent pair - official marriage or not!





    If I had NOT taken her advice, I would have missed out on knowing the most wonderful person that has ever touched my life!
    Mine would have to be ';whenever you think times are realy tough, you should always aknowledge that someone else has it ten times worse than you do'; Like when a child complains about whats for dinner,, I always tell them to imagine the kids that dont have dinner this week. I also go by this myself,, Ive had it good and ive had it bad so thats when we learn to appreciate. :)
    A colleague (and friend) once got very angry with me for no apparent reason, and I became disproportionately upset about it.





    I discussed the problem with a mutual friend who had known him for much longer than I had, and was told ';.. don't adopt other people's problems';





    so, I let it pass... and it passed.





    I now think about this whenever I start to feel distressed about another person's behavior.
    When we got married one of our supervisors in the military said ';live as close to one paycheck as possible.'; That turned out to be great advice as my world has been knocked out from under me many times.
    Don't work at wal-mart for the rest of your life.

    Can you give me advice on my ';fear of intimacy';?

    I never had much positive reinforcement growing up. I was a target for bullies, girls shunned me. I felt like crap most of my early life. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 18, that relationship lasted 2 years, and I should never have been involved with this girl. She is IMHO a sociopath. However, losing her seriously ruined my confidence, what little I had anyway. To try to ease the pain of the suddon loss of intimacy, I very stupidly turned to internet porn to try to fill in the intimacy gap I was experiencing. It's now 5 years later and I haven't been involved with a woman in that time (although I have been rejected plenty of times) and I am still addicted to the porn. I try to kick the habbit, I know it's disgusting. I hate it. I can't seem to kick it though. I see the world passing me by, and my ability to pull myself together is rapidly deteriorating. No one knows my situation. Not even my family. I don't know what to say to women. What they want. Does anyone have any advice?Can you give me advice on my ';fear of intimacy';?
    Of course, ';fear of intimacy'; is essentially a certain type of fear. And if we truly, deeply understand fear itself, then the particular, specific fears we experience take care of themselves naturally.





    And of course, intimacy involves a degree of vulnerability, and many folks are afraid of being vulnerable.





    But it also goes deeper than that.





    Could it be that during moments of intimacy, another person sees us in a way that we don't see ourselves . . . and so it threatens our idea of who we are?





    Who we think we are - our idea of who we are - we will call, for our purposes here ';ego';.





    Perhaps intimacy is a glimpse beyond ourselves (beyond our ';egos';) - it is a momentary, intense, terrifying experience when we know - if only for a few moments - that we are not who we think we are. And these glimpses, as powerful as they are, are terrifying.





    The ';solution';, then, for a ';fear of intimacy'; . . .





    - lies in broadening your understanding of ';who you are.';





    This process essentially means really, truly finding out who you are. This means not only discovering a ';new you,'; in a way, but also means discovering who you aren't and, in a way, ';dropping those egos';. Because it is very likely that, if you embark on this search and are sincere about wanting to find out . . . you will discover that you are not who you think you are.Can you give me advice on my ';fear of intimacy';?
    Yes. Seek help for your addicition. It's no different than any number of other addictions. Until you address it, you will never have real intimacy in your life again, and you obviously want it.
    I have that same fear. I do not know were it comes from. I cant even confront a girl without being extremely nervous to the point of a panic attack. I don't know were it comes from or how to deal with it. I just know that as far as I can remember, its been part of my life and as Ive gotten older - my problem has gotten worse.


    I suppose that I must have a fear of rejection.





    I don't see your problem with porn as a big problem - actually, that's normal to a certain extent. It seems to me like you have a low self-worth. The only thing I can tell you is that you've got to find that value of worthiness within yourself again. Eventually, a girl will accept you for who you are - but first, you must accept yourself for who you are.





    I hope things get better for you. I understand your problem - I struggle myself. If you'd like, my email is slattonjerry@yahoo.com





    stay up
    There is help available for your addiction. 12 step groups and other avenues as well. Counseling would probably also help. Be proud of yourself for realizing you need help.
    To boost your confidence I recommend the free hypnosis trance from:

    Do you have any advice for a grown man who is afraid of Bill Cosby?

    Are you afraid of his strange stories that lead to nowhere?Do you have any advice for a grown man who is afraid of Bill Cosby?
    Don't watch the Cosby Show.Do you have any advice for a grown man who is afraid of Bill Cosby?
    Stay away from Jello Pudding
    Oh no I see Jello Pudding....Run!

    What's the best advice you've been given lately?

    Here's some. Don't ever ask this question.


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>


    And don't read happy little tree's answer.......What's the best advice you've been given lately?
    what are they all new?this is P%26amp;S...where are the smartass answers.What's the best advice you've been given lately?
    Procrastination isn't the problem, it's the solution. So procrastinate now, don't put it off.
    EAT THE WORM!
    Don't mind me.. I was just wetting myself at a few of them!
    My dad said ';if you stir in shet, it will stink';
    Relax, before I have a stroke! 鈾
    sometimes you gotta take what life gives you
    indeed darlin...be careful what you wish for....

    What's the best advice you have after all that you've been through in life?

    Thanks =)What's the best advice you have after all that you've been through in life?
    It's really hard to say but a few stick out...........A doctor told me this in reference to my constant guilt about everything, he said that I was not the center of the universe and did not have the power to even do all the things I felt guilty about. He also meant that people were not constantly watching and judging me.....they were busy with their own lives. I couldn't stand him at first, he seemed unnecessarily cruel but he was the best psychiatrist I ever had. He made me realize I was self centered and tried to make everything about me, that I used guilt on my daughters to make them do the things I wanted. He made me realize that no matter how depressed and miserable I was I had no right to commit suicide when I had a family who loved me. It's embarrassing to even write all these faults down but when I accepted that he was right, and if I must say so myself ,I've done a pretty fair job on changing. My daughters helped immensely I asked them to let me know when I was slipping back into the same old habits, when you've done something for so long it just gets kind of automatic. Anyway they did let me know and in such a funny and joking way I had to end up agreeing and laughing. That wonderful doctor died of a brain tumor after I had seen him for about 18 months. I have had two brain surgeries for braianeurysmsms so it hit me doubly hard when he died. If you ever get a doctor like that try to hang in there with him for a little while. When I first started to see mine I was in a three week stay in a mental hospital for attempted suicide and I had no choice but to see him every day. Otherwise I may have stopped seeing him and missed the best opportunity I ever had for real help. Most of the other doctors and therapists talked about my childhood and past and how it affected my life today. That's good to know but once you know it you just have to let it go and start with today. When I attempted suicide, the most selfish and cowardly thing I have ever done, I was so depressed it was too much effort to shower, brush my teeth and get dressed every day. I now I know the warning signs when I'm starting back down that slippery slope again I go right to the psyhcatrist and the therapist, I don't want to ever feel that way again. This may not do you a bit of good but maybe even a little while be something you can identify with. Durning that time is when I started making a list of the things I am grateful for........my husband and daughters, especially my daughteres because I was not a god mother, because of my own problems, until they were much older, my two loving little Yorkies who love me unconditionally, the many life threatening illnesses I have had that I've come though with no side effects, a new day to try again, my sons-in-laws etc. Another thing to be grateful for is all the people who have ever really loved you no matter how things worked out in the end....like my exhusband, relatives, etc. To sum it up it is to take an honest look at myself, acknowledge the things that need to be changed and work on the changes. Journaling helps too, it's one of the ways I know when that deep dark hole of depression is sneaking into my life or I'm starting to identify myself only as a depressed person with anxiety, OCD and panic attacks. I'm much more than that but I have to remind myself constantly.What's the best advice you have after all that you've been through in life?
    Always be kind to others, look for ways to help others. This makes two people feel good, the one who is helped and the one who did the helping. Keep your temper, you always lose the game when you lose your temper and it makes you look bad. Learn the skill of discussing rather than arguing. Don't gossip it always comes back to haunt you. Walk away from those whose intentions are bad. Choose friends very carefully,learn who you can trust with your life and those who don't care. always try to look at the good side of things. Keep negativity out of your mind as much as possible.
    aim low


    be contented with simple things


    make friends who look up to you, not the other way around


    ditch any addictive habits


    dance %26amp; sing %26amp; joke frequently


    learn to ignore your parents and their distorted expectations


    marry someone who is easy to get along with and who thinks you're great.
    Don't get married unless you have a purpose in life.





    Save your money and do without the things you want.





    Stand up on your own two feet and stop crying about what you don't have because your too sorry to go out and work for it.
    don't sweat the small stuff. it is never as good or as bad as it seems.


    love deeply even if you get hurt it is the best feeling in the world.
    choose your battles


    dont sweat the small stuff


    happiness is a CHOICE


    you can choose to be a victim


    living well is the best revenge


    love your self


    find your passion


    the golden rule
    If ever in a negative situation, analyse the situation and find the positives, everything happens for a reason..
    Maintain relationships with Friends and Families.
    Choose your battles...pick your battles - sometimes you have to let the little stuff go.
    Don't worry, Be happy. Life is too short to be anything but happy!
    Do not be so quick to judge.


    Do not burn bridges. You just never know.
    Just relax. Don't be so serious.
    .......mind your own business, live %26amp; let live............
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  • I just wanna say thank you ladies for the advice. ?

    I know that it can be VERY stressful with trying to conceive , and hey you ladies sre right I just need to relax and have fun. i know God will bless me one day. Thanks againI just wanna say thank you ladies for the advice. ?
    Yeah,


    or science


    typical


    chalking everything up to the big spooky invisible man in the sky

    Are you afraid people actually may be taking your advice on here ? ?

    lol..i have seen some crazy answers.Are you afraid people actually may be taking your advice on here ? ?
    LOL I hope not!Are you afraid people actually may be taking your advice on here ? ?
    Yeah....most of the time I'm not serious if its not much of a serious question to me.... its their fault for trusting strangers on the internet instead of friends and family....not my fault if they actually listened when they knew it was a crazy answer...
    Yes! Some people give crazy answers. Like once I saw a question and it said, ';I have a hernia, what should I do?'; and then someone answered take prenatal vitamins 0_o
    No, I give good advice!





    Actually, no I don't. :)
    Uhm yeah. Especially if I'm not serious.
    Sometimes.. Show us!
    i hope the jonass fans do.
    No.lol
    no


    i tell people the truth



    Good point.
    Haha! I really hope not.
    no cause me gives good advices
    god I hope not
    maybe i'm afraid it might not work
    I do not give advice just stupid answers
    No. They shouldn't be stupid.

    How much do you weigh?? not to be nosy... advice??

    I am 137lbs. and am in high school. Is that too much?? Am I fat?? People say I have a nice figure and am sexy, but i always seem to feel fat... sigh. Advice??How much do you weigh?? not to be nosy... advice??
    you're not fat at all. most people think they're fat when they aren't at all. that's a pretty normal weight.How much do you weigh?? not to be nosy... advice??
    no that doens soudn too much
    to much
    Your weight tells me nothing. I need your height, age, and gender to make a determination. Chances are, the answer is no. My advice is to talk to your doctor or go to this website: http://apps.nccd.cdc.gov/dnpabmi/Calcula…
    5'8.5 and 180ish...i'm fat, but i look GOOOD





    X)





    stop putting yourself down, you a hot mamma if you wanna be
    115 lbs., I doubt that your fat if people say you have a nice figure, were always our own worst critics.
    I'm fat.





    I used to think I was fat in high school, but if I knew then what I know now, I would have quit worrying about being fat.
    I'm around 130 lbs. but I'm 5'8 so I'm kinda skinny. It depends on how tall you are.





    Maybe you should could tone up... weights maybe, sometimes I feel fat even though I'm not... its just that I have more fat than muscle I guess.
    Seriously, weight doesn't really mean anything. If your height and age match up with your weight, you're healthy.





    If you're 3'5'; at 137, yeah, thats a little fat, but you're fine!





    I'm 17, 5'1'; and weigh roughly 124 (give or take).
    depends on ur height
    how tall are you? 137 isn't fat if your 8'5
    165 lbs...





    I am 6' 0';...


    16 yrs old...


    male...








    well..i dont look fat at all.... it











    REALLY depends on your HEIGHT..honestly...
    Don't listen to what others tell you - if you are happy and healthy with your body, then that weight is fine. Also, weight is not a good indication of your fitness because muscle weighs more than fat - therefore, you can be really toned and muscular and still see some high numbers when you step on the scale.





    Seriously though, I know a lot of girls who would love to weigh 137 pounds.
    I'm 5 foot 8 inches and I weigh 103 pounds. I'm very underweight though.
    122. No you are not fat! If people are complimenting you on your body, Why are you asking if you are fat?


    Love your body and don't be ashamed or in doubt of it!


    =]


    Have a nice evening!
    I'm 137 too! I like it somedays, and other days I feel a little blue. I'm not fat and I know that for a fact. I mean, come on, I only have a A cup. If I was bigger, maybe I could get out of the pre-teen section...
    If people are complimenting you on your figure then their not lying. You wouldn't randomly compliment someone on their figure like someone might lie and say 'you're pretty' so believe them! Love yourself. Just think when you're 50 you'll look back on the photos and think jeez I looked fine!
    I'm 6 and I weigh 327 lbs. It's probably society's fault.
    Too much
    im 13 and around 85 lbs. 5'1. so im normal
    I am 6ft 3inches, tall, and I weigh 255 pounds. i am not fat, but I am a bodybuilder.
    99.82lbs no im not under weight!
    93 pounds :)
    I'm old and my weight fluctuates between 145-150. I'm happy at this weight.





    That really is the beauty of getting older; you aren't nearly as critical about yourself as you are when you are young.
    i'm 115


    if people say you're sexy and have a nice figure, go with them and believe that


    my advice: be more comfortable with yourself
    122!
    I'll never tell!!!
    im 89 [im serious ok] and im pretty short 5'1 and in Middle School :)and people say i have a sexy body :)
    i'm 125, but weight all depends on height. the taller you are the more you can weigh without looking fat. but don't worry about it. my younger sister is 150, and she looks pretty skinny. she is 5'5';
    15 145
    a lot

    Can you help me with a problem i have trouble falling and staying asleep do you have any advice?

    There are night time pain relievers. I sometimes use Equate P.M. pain reliever. I try not to make a habit of it, and I only use one.Can you help me with a problem i have trouble falling and staying asleep do you have any advice?
    i saw on TV it help you sleep and all go to the Doctor he will help you he is the problem to all yer answers LOL I'm jk but go to the Doctor he will help u outCan you help me with a problem i have trouble falling and staying asleep do you have any advice?
    Warm milk


    Add chammomile tea


    Honey optional





    You'll be asleep 15 mins after drinking it.





    sweet dreams

    Do you always ask others for their opinions or advice?

    I ALWAYS do that.Do you always ask others for their opinions or advice?
    Before I reply: How do you think I should answer your question?Do you always ask others for their opinions or advice?
    Thx for the ten!

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    Yes I do but I make up my own mind. I have several people in my life that are good natured and I value their ideas and opinions. Besides we can learn something new as we age and sometimes someone else perspective on things can really help out. Especially when they have nothing to lose or gain and we do!
    Yeah so that you can see it from different angles and it gives you more choice of how to deal with the thing you needed advice on.
    Advice yes, it IS nice to know what another person thinks of certain things....thats how we learn, learn about them and learn about whatever it is we are asking
    Sometimes... but I never their advice LOL (especially on P%26amp;S)
    depends what the question is.


    you must ask for advice a lot if you ask for advice on asking advice.
    Not always but sometimes.
    No i try not to get others involved.


    BTW i love Daria. i miss that show!
    Clearly you do





    yes





    i do





    because i am a sheep





    afraid to stand out





    it's guttering





    (:
    No. I live for myself and don't give a phlying phuck what others think.
    yea so i could change if they tell me im bad but if good i try more like that
    depends
    Me too. It is considered as being wise.
    no i dont but i should
    yeah I usually do..........................I hate doing it but I stilldo it!!
    i ask for both


    woof
    NO!
    You are doing in now...
    YES, I CAN'T HELP THE FACT THAT I CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK...IT'D BE THE ONE THING I'D CHANGE IF I COULD...
    sometimes. OMG daria. i remember that show from like 10 years ago :)
    No cuz I really dont give a rats @ss what other people think.
    no... I dont
    of course
    not really.
    nope not really





    :)
    most of the time
    Only if I have my route already. Never early on in the game.

    What your advice can you give me for virgins on their first time.?

    Just wanted some advice for future refrences to tell a friend since were both virgins. Im no good with giving advice that i have no experience with.What your advice can you give me for virgins on their first time.?
    Make sure the guy you are giving it up to is someone who you have a real bonding with--the two of you are really a pair. The worst thing you can do is to just have sex to find out what this experience everyone talks so much about is. People who look back fondly on their first experience usually had it with someone they love--but love is such a weird and confusing feeling it may not be your best yardstick. You could easily fool yourself into thinking you are in love, or you could wind up waiting too long looking for that perfect, storybook love that you'll either cheapen the experience or make it into something greater than it is and wind up disappointed.





    Find someone who you respect and respects you. Some time together would be a good idea too. If you have both of those, you probably have some real love for each other too. If you two haven't built up respect for each other though, you don't really know whether you have love or if it is an illusion.





    And finally, for when the waiting is done--don't worry about how it, you, or he was when it happens. If you two are a pair, you have a lot of time to learn about each other and what makes you and your partner feel good. (Which is another reason to do this with a boy who respects you--you know there will be a second and a third time, and you two will get it right. No guarantee of either of those (doing it again or trying to get it right) without respect.What your advice can you give me for virgins on their first time.?
    wait...don't loose it to some as s hole.
    wait until you get married. it will make it more special.
    iwait until the right man comes around.
    Don't do it! That's the best you can give anyone. It may not be what either of you want to hear but I promise you, you will feel so much better about it later in life. I know personally I regret loosing it before being married. I look back on it now and I wish that myself and my finace we're virgins when we met because then when you're married you share something special. Plus your both pure and clean! Sex isn't EVERYTHING everyone makes it to be. It's not the greatest thing in the world and honestly if you're not with someone who is as concerned with you enjoying it as he is with himself then you're better off without. I'm not telling you not to do it. It's the best advise you can give anyone but If you do decide to have sex MAKE SURE I can't express it enough you wear protection even if you're on birth control. If you have sex with someone who has had sex with someone else and that someone else has sex with a different person it could all lead to a disease. BE CAREFUL. Make sure it's right and don't let anyone pressure you into it. I hope that helps
    Come to my pre-lost-virginity class in NJ...The classes are held 2 times a week or you can make an appointment for me to come see you for a private session....good luck!!!
    honestly , the most important thing is to wait until its with someone you really love and want to be with. i lost my virginity when i was 15 with a guy i didnt even like and i regret it already, and im only 18 right now. i really wish i had of waited ! hope i helped :]
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  • Which SIMS game do you like best and why? I was thinking of getting one and need advice?

    Any suggestions or critiques are welcomeWhich SIMS game do you like best and why? I was thinking of getting one and need advice?
    First, you have to have Sims, Sims 2, Sims 2 Double Deluxe or Sims 2 Deluxe. The expansion packs (programs that add a new theme to the program) will not work without one of those. It's like getting a Game Boy, you get one but you have to buy the games seperately. I like Seaons and Nightlife the most. There is also Pets, Open for Business, Bustin Out, Freetime, Bon Voyage, and University. The stuff packs (programs that add more items to your catalog) are Kitchen %26amp; Bath Interior Design, Teen Style, H%26amp;M Fashion, Celebration, Glamour Life, and Family Fun stuff. I like Teen Style the most. The Sims Stories packs (programs that are for beginners, but not an expansion pack) are Life, Pets, and Castaway stories. I like Life the most. And if you get Deluxe, you also get a free Nightlife expansion as a bonus. Double Deluxe comes with a Stuff pack. The original games I first mentioned cost from $20-$40. Stuff, Expansion, and Stories packs are $15-$27. There is also MySims, but that is only on the Wii and the DS. Hope this helped, I am an expert on Sims.Which SIMS game do you like best and why? I was thinking of getting one and need advice?
    Well first of all you need the original sims 2 or sims 2deluxe/double deluxe which is about to come out. These cost about 32 bucks with tax.





    then if you want more...


    i would sugest getting an expansion pack because it comes with special things you can do and house/ clothing items. these are the same price.





    stuff packs are cheaper but you only get house/ clothing items and no special things like creating pets or changin seasons.





    if you deluxe or double deluxe, it comes with nightlife and the double comes with a stuff pack which is a bonus! but like i have seasons,, pets and nightlife and the more you get the better the graphics become and the more complicated.





    i would just get one of the priginals and then add more as you go on!





    hope it helps... they all are the same price 32 bucks with tax except stuff packs are 22 about .





    XD Enjoys lol
    Well if it's SIms or Sims 2, you will need either sims original, sims original deluxe





    or sims 2 original/sims 2 deluxe








    then after that you can add expansion packs, but they won't work without the original game.





    I personally have seasons, nightlife, and pets, and I love seasons most.
    all sims games are just weird in my opinion. BUT the one i do like. is Sims 2. not pets, not anything else (except for MAYBE deluxe). GET IT FOR THE PC. really, the game is a lot easier to play on the computer. i havent played some other versions, but if you like classic type sims in a more upgraded way, get Sims 2 or Sims 2 deluxe.
    If its the Sims 2 then you should get the pets or nightlife expansion cause it have more feature than the original sims 2 and the pets one have animals that you can take care of. Nightlife you can go into the town at night and party.
    bustin out cuz you can have kids, drive, and move places.





    castaway because the island thing is cool.





    they're coming out with a sims 3 in 2009
    sims 2 for pc definitely, and then get the nightlife expansion pack, because you can go on dates and drive cars in that one.
    sims 2 because you can buy pets and i is very real and you kids can grow also you can buy a house for very cheap
    I like MySims. but thats on the wii and the wii is hard 2 find... haven't played any of the computer ones so i can't really say anything about them...





    is this helpful?
    the computer one, like the deluxe one.. or the urbz on gba
    I like the Sims1 the best
    I love SIMS I play it all the time on my PS2 :)
    if you have a good computer then get sims 2 if you dont sims one is still great i play it at school lol
    I think they're all fun!! I got addicted to the original one, and the rest are fun too

    If you were stranded on a deserted island, which possible new world leader would you call for advice?

    A. Joe Biden


    B. John McCain


    C. Barack Obama


    D. Sarah Palin


    E. Someone in another countryIf you were stranded on a deserted island, which possible new world leader would you call for advice?
    why is everyone talking about these people, Ive certainly answered Obama questions around 3 times,


    I'll still be nice to a person like u and tell you that maybe Sarah palin,


    she sound friendly!


    Bye byeIf you were stranded on a deserted island, which possible new world leader would you call for advice?
    Joe Biden. Not because he's even remotely interesting, but because he's quick on his feet. He would have the ability to help me survive. Furthermore, he's tough. I wouldn't want to be on an island with a wuss.
    E. Vladimir Putin. Did you hear how he shot a Siberian tiger with a tranquilizer gun as it was charging a camera crew?!? Somewhat of a Fascist maybe, but good for survival in the wild!
    Silly, silly snow flake,





    That's easy: Obama.





    I'd ask him to please use his community organizer skills to ask President McCain to fly over and get me.





    .
    C Barack Obama
    Obama!!
    C. Barack Obama
    B:John McCain
    B. John McCain
    D i love her i bought the same glasses as her yesterday
    E. Someone Else, For Sure....!!
    E
    E lol
    E
    E.
    C
    C
    D
    One who knows how to build a boat.
    my mommy



    Peris Hilton shes got more brains

    Im looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?

    travelocity.com has a low fare alert that you can sign up for, and it emails you when the fare between your selected cities goes up or down.





    I prefer Yahoo Travel which has an RSS feed that displays the lowest fare available every time I log into my home page of my.yahoo.com.Im looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?
    www.air-asia.comIm looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?
    check for www.mytrip.com in india

    Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?

    I would like to become a teacher! My question is: is it hard to obtain your bachelor's degree in education? I am going to take my entrance tests for college soon then I will know where to start. I was just wanting some advice, experiences you have had as a teacher and what the career field is like? I would greatly appreciate it.


    Thanks and god bless!Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?
    The difficulty factor in getting an education degree shouldn't scare you. It's challenging, but it's not rocket science.





    As for what it is like to be a teacher, there seem to be as many answers as there are teachers. It can be one of the most rewarding careers imaginable and one of the most frustrating. Talk to some of your own teachers or former teachers that you particularly respect and get their feelings about this and advice.





    My final bit of advice is to either choose a school that gets you in the classroom early as an intern or volunteer aide. If your chosen school does not do this, find somewhere to volunteer on your own time and find out how the classroom feels to you in a non-student role. I've seen friends go through 3 1/2 years of an education major and then hit reality in their student teaching experience and decide that teaching is not for them. Better to find out (either way) early in the going. It will either motivate you to do well because you know you love it or let you make a change before you get too far down the road.





    Good luck!Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?
    Depending on where and what you want to teach, you don't have to get a BA in education. I have a degree in psychology, and I teach social studies, history, and government. I know others who have random Bachelors degrees and still get away with teaching. You must have a license though, so as long as you have the qualification, you can teach. Its hard work, but easy enough.

    If you were stranded on a deserted island, which possible new world leader would you call for advice?

    A. Joe Biden


    B. John McCain


    C. Barack Obama


    D. Sarah Palin


    E. Someone in another countryIf you were stranded on a deserted island, which possible new world leader would you call for advice?
    why is everyone talking about these people, Ive certainly answered Obama questions around 3 times,


    I'll still be nice to a person like u and tell you that maybe Sarah palin,


    she sound friendly!


    Bye byeIf you were stranded on a deserted island, which possible new world leader would you call for advice?
    Joe Biden. Not because he's even remotely interesting, but because he's quick on his feet. He would have the ability to help me survive. Furthermore, he's tough. I wouldn't want to be on an island with a wuss.
    E. Vladimir Putin. Did you hear how he shot a Siberian tiger with a tranquilizer gun as it was charging a camera crew?!? Somewhat of a Fascist maybe, but good for survival in the wild!
    Silly, silly snow flake,





    That's easy: Obama.





    I'd ask him to please use his community organizer skills to ask President McCain to fly over and get me.





    .
    C Barack Obama
    Obama!!
    C. Barack Obama
    B:John McCain
    B. John McCain
    D i love her i bought the same glasses as her yesterday
    E. Someone Else, For Sure....!!
    E
    E lol
    E
    E.
    C
    C
    D
    One who knows how to build a boat.
    my mommy



    Peris Hilton shes got more brains

    Im looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?

    travelocity.com has a low fare alert that you can sign up for, and it emails you when the fare between your selected cities goes up or down.





    I prefer Yahoo Travel which has an RSS feed that displays the lowest fare available every time I log into my home page of my.yahoo.com.Im looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?
    www.air-asia.comIm looking for a web site that gives you advice of when the best time to buy airline tickets is....any idea?
    check for www.mytrip.com in india
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  • Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?

    I would like to become a teacher! My question is: is it hard to obtain your bachelor's degree in education? I am going to take my entrance tests for college soon then I will know where to start. I was just wanting some advice, experiences you have had as a teacher and what the career field is like? I would greatly appreciate it.


    Thanks and god bless!Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?
    The difficulty factor in getting an education degree shouldn't scare you. It's challenging, but it's not rocket science.





    As for what it is like to be a teacher, there seem to be as many answers as there are teachers. It can be one of the most rewarding careers imaginable and one of the most frustrating. Talk to some of your own teachers or former teachers that you particularly respect and get their feelings about this and advice.





    My final bit of advice is to either choose a school that gets you in the classroom early as an intern or volunteer aide. If your chosen school does not do this, find somewhere to volunteer on your own time and find out how the classroom feels to you in a non-student role. I've seen friends go through 3 1/2 years of an education major and then hit reality in their student teaching experience and decide that teaching is not for them. Better to find out (either way) early in the going. It will either motivate you to do well because you know you love it or let you make a change before you get too far down the road.





    Good luck!Are you a teacher? Can you give me some advice?
    Depending on where and what you want to teach, you don't have to get a BA in education. I have a degree in psychology, and I teach social studies, history, and government. I know others who have random Bachelors degrees and still get away with teaching. You must have a license though, so as long as you have the qualification, you can teach. Its hard work, but easy enough.