May you please give me some advice?

I'm a 21 y/o senior at a university. I feel like I've wasted the my college years. I don't even have any photos tagged on facebook b/c I haven't been out or done anything. A lot of people tell me I'm nice/sweet/caring/etc. but that's really all I have to show for myself. I've missed out on exploring and want to cry. How can I make up for it?May you please give me some advice?
It's never too late to have fun. Besides...if you play your cards right, the years after college/uni can be as fun as or more fun than college/uni. Explore while you can and have fun. Trust me. It's not too late. LIVE!May you please give me some advice?
you can't be someone that you're not. Maybe you just haven't found the right kind of people to hang out with yet or it's just not the right time for you. You're only 21. At 21 i thought my life was pointless. I was going out and getting drunk here there and everywhere with a bunch of so-called friends - trying to fit in and be like other university students but it made me even more depressed. Just being part of it doesn't mean you're gonna be any happier.





Do what feels right for you, don't just try to be everyone else!!!!
first off, i don't nkow if you are a guy or girl, so i'll try to be open as possible to both...





going out doesn't necessarily equate to having a good time... not all experiences are good ones. Find activities you enjoy... sports rec leagues (competitive to the point where they are fun), join a gym (yoga, cycling, just plain old working out freeweights/running) i recently joined a gym and met a lot of new people... dont get caught up in the whole ';oh i have so many facebook pictures'; phase, facebook is fun yes, but it is not an accurate picture of ones life and decisions...





i suggest joining your local Y, or gym, meet new people... go to happy hour with some friends, enjoy a regular sunday afternoon at the bar eating wings and havin a few beers...





im 21, working on co-op, meeting new people on a daily basis... the best part of my day is my lunch hour when i go to the gym and get a solid workout in, talking to the people i have met there... but that might not be your style... whatever you enjoy in life, do that! don't fall to peer pressures, but don't be afraid to pursue whatever your heart tells you...
Stay into the Eternal Now. You cannot do anything about yesterday. You don't even know if you have tomorrow. You have TODAY:) Make yourself a Bucket List, and do what you can do, TRY OUT lots of things as long as they don't hurt YOU or anyone else. Have Fun:)
your 21 for god's sake, you have plenty of time to have fun and make good/bad memories, dont panic at all, age means nothing. have fun
21 is still young. You have a long way to go, start having some fun.
its never too late. never. do the things that make u happy. thats it dont be afraid of missing out on life just be happy stop being so pressured...
How can you make up for it??





Get out there!! Make some friends! Get some plans for Spring Break ASAP! Join a club! Enjoy your last semester.. especially since you are 21 and can get into any bar/club!
Believe me when I say you have your whole life ahead of you.
You need to get out and live life, do some traveling!
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Maybe this song will cheer you up:





Gone (By Switchfoot)





She told him she'd rather fix her makeup


Than try to fix what's going on


But the problem keeps on calling


Even with the cellphone gone


She told him that she believes in living


Bigger than she's living now


But her world keeps spinning backwards


And upsidedown


Don't say so long, and throw yourself wrong


Don't spend today away


Cuz today will soon be





Gone, like yesterday is gone,


Like history is


Gone, just trying to prove me wrong


And pretend like you're immortal





She said he said live like no tomorrow


Every day we borrow


Brings us one step closer to the edge (infinity)


Where's your treasure, where's your hope


If you get the world and lose your soul


She pretends like she pretends like she's immortal


Don't say so long


You're not that far gone


This could be your big chance to makeup


Today will soon be





Gone, like yeterday is gone,


Like history is gone,


The world keeps spinning on,


Your going going gone,


Like summer break is gone,


Like saturday is gone


Just try to prove me wrong


You pretend like your immortal your immortal





We are not infinite


We are not permanent


Nothing is immediate


We're so confident


In our accomplishments


Look at our decadence





Gone, like Frank Sinatra


Like Elvis and his mom


Like AL Pacino's cash nothing lasts in this life


My highschool dreams are gone


My childhood sweets are gone


Life is a day that doesn't last for long





Life is more than money


Time was never money


Time was never cash,


Life is still more than girls


Life is more than hundred dollar bills


And roto-tom fills


Life's more than fame and rock and roll and thrills


All the riches of the kings


End up in wills we got information in the information age


But do we know what life is


Outside of our convenient Lexus cages





She said he said live like no tomorrow


Every moment that we borrow


Brings us closer to the God who's not short of cash


Hey Bono i'm glad you asked


Life is still worth living, life is still worth living