Mental abuse. How do you stand up for yourself and is it ever to late to stop it? Please any advice helpful.?

I've been dealing with my on and off again boyfriend for 3 years.Once I fell in love I've been tolerating alot of things that I shouldn't from him but I always take him back because I love him. Now he's getting worse and worse because he knows I'll get mad for a couple of days but I'll let him come back. Ahnoestly I don't even know if he loves or respects me anymore because of the stuff I've let him get away with.








But my question is once you let someone get away with stuff like running back and fowards between you and other women and things like that and calling you names. Is it ever to late to stand up and save the relationship? And if so then how? Or once someone gets away with so much is it basically over and they'll never have the same respect for you?Mental abuse. How do you stand up for yourself and is it ever to late to stop it? Please any advice helpful.?
It's over....be done with it..be done with him. You obviously want to be with someone who you can love without having him USE that against you...this guy you're with will never ever appreciate you!! You need to get yourself out of this toxic relationship %26amp; be on your own for awhile....you only THINK you love him...deep down, how can you actually LOVE someone who treats you like garbage? This guy has no heart %26amp; he will never come around, even if you tell him exactly how you feel....he doesn't care about your feelings. If he did, he wouldn't be such a jerk!! You've been involved in this situtation for so long that you've come to accept it as


';good enough';. Well, it's not!! Get out before it gets worse!! He may not be physically abusive, but there's no telling if/when he'll cross THAT line too.Mental abuse. How do you stand up for yourself and is it ever to late to stop it? Please any advice helpful.?
If his comments and actions hurt you emotionally then its mental abuse.... think about it...would you say and do those things to someone you loved ?, is your answer NO?, then you have answered your own question, he doesn't love you and definately doesn't respect you, you are his little puppy dog and he is getting a power high controlling you. Have some respect for yourself and walk away for good, cos he sure hasn't got any for you
Get rid of him.....he's taking advantage of your feelings. Especially considering he knows you'll take him back every time he comes crawling back to you....he's having his way with you.





Break it off.....and don't take him back. You can do a lot better than that.
1. It's never too late to save the relationship, but remember, save it if it's worth saving it. keep in mind that a relationship should allow you to grow and mature, and provide you security and happiness.





2. You could save the relationship by mutually agreeing that you will be respecting each other. (but remember, if boyfrind doesn't wan' to change his negative attitudes, it's not your responsibility to mak a saint out of him.) You could only save the relationship if BOTH OF YOU is willing to save it.





3. Don't and NEVER blame yourself for loving and allowing someone to be who they would want to be. you are worthy of being respected. It's just that, your boyfriend is INCAPABLE of valuing the love and understanding that you are capable of giving.





* i think you are very capable of loving, the problem is, as how you stated your problem, it's your boyfriend WHO IS THE PROBLEM. choose to be happy. You are worthy of the best things in life.
Playing alot of head games with you because he knows you love him is mental abuse. You are in an unhealthy relationship. Stand up for yourself and have enough respect and love for yourself to walk away and never look back. You deserve better. It won't change. Just walk away, you can do it.
do i even have to tell u drop him like its hott